Is he ready to say "YES?"

Men love their freedom and independence. For some, marriage is the end of freedom and the beginning of the life chain. For others it is a mistake that they do. And most people believe marriage is an exchange at which turning the eternal bond. Marriage is perceived by men as loss of sense of freedom, the obligation to have a single partner of the opposite sex, taking of responsibility and anxiety of a downturn. There could be several reasons why men are afraid to do so.
Lack of confidence in women
Although it seems rather unusual, because usually men are those who betray the trust of women, things can stay way. Many times, men started off their life with some jaundice in childhood or adolescence. Ideas that are plugged into their head by the experimented ones who already went through life and experience. Even if these ideas do not have a solid base, but are pure and simple myths, many men live with these ideas . There is also a second factor : that everything is beautiful is desirable. So then men are afraid that many others will appear in the competition better than they, and they will be removed, pushed aside. This is where the frustration and jealousy.
Entourage, friends and lifestyle
A great deal of influence it can have on an individual, is the entourage. Men usually supported celibacy, in turn why women are at the opposite pole and search for marriage and security. As long as friends will sit around, man will not find a stable partner. In the group of friends, man can be easily influenced by the views of others.
Lack of freedom
If the women compromise in this regard in one way or another, find that men have very big problems adjusting in this regard. Eternal adventurers, when they will feel the smallest spiral of freedom, they will escape. Numerous times, they suffer of the syndrome called "invasion of privacy". The idea that someone could share everything with them shivers down. Plus, they do not support questions, explanations and personality crises of women.
But the reality is…
Fear of marriage is based on an irrational fear, the refusal to face the responsibilities and hardships of life in two. This fear is more met in the men who prefer to love without formalize the relationship . Marriage anxiety is manifested by direct rejections, but with different stated reasons that men bring to the foreground if possible to postpone marriage. Studies of couples of friends last year showed that the rate of marriage among young people is still down from previous years. The main reasons advanced by men are: lack of trust in relationships unstable and insecure, lack of a stable job.. To these it can be added the lack of socio-cultural and intellectual status congruent with partner status, lack of harmonious relationships with parents and future in-law that would endanger conjugal relationship, lack of free time that was used. But the strongest reason is that once married you have to be limited to a single partner, and this is the equivalent of monotony, the decrease in interest towards the beloved one.